The UnPost.

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Jeez, we’re 3 weeks into 2010!? I’ve been missing at the blog. Got back a week ago but that’s no excuse. Truth is, I’m struggling feeling uninspired to say anything. Everything is the same and yet it’s not. All the changes and wheels I set in motion last year are swirling around my ankles and reaching into […]

When You Don’t Know What Lies Ahead..

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(*This is the ezine issue that went out last night – I wanted to share it with those of you who aren’t subscribed cos I feel there’s an important message here* To subscribe to the ezine, just enter your email address at the top right corner of this page.) It was the last day of my […]

Old Stories vs New Stories: How to Bridge the Gap?

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Speaking of telling new stories in the new year, you know well that to let in a new story, you’ve got to stop holding onto the old one, right? Let’s get clear about this: To tell a new story, let go of the old one. But sometimes it’s easier said than done. You wonder if […]

What’s Your New Story In The New Year?

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Just heard about an inventive (and brilliant!) idea from a friend for how to “do” New Year Intentions so of course I’m running right over to share it with you. This year, instead of (or along with, if that feels better) the usual goals you tend to set by default every year – and break […]

When The Destination is Better Than the Journey!

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You’ve always heard me talk about how the journey is more important than the destination. Well, I lied. In this impromptu video I made while out on a walk at my holiday destination the other day, I had to eat my words. So I’m amending that to 70% journey, 30% destination. Cos if it isn’t […]

Attracting a mate – Give It Up or Wait It Out?

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This is a topic that has been talked about in earlier posts (not necessarily related to relationships though) and was brought to my attention again recently. You see, it’s that time of the year that I’ve been getting quite a few readers asking me about the best way to manifest a relationship (just something about the […]

Pursuing Happiness Is A Trap & YOU’RE in it.

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Ever feel like you did something really stupid? Irrational. Something that made no sense at all. Ever then kicked yourself when you did it again? And again. And again? You’re so aware, you really should’ve known better.. Ever made an assumption that turned out to be totally wrong? What about the “good” assumptions – like […]

From Victim to Victor – A Personal Note

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Or, Don’t Rain on my Parade. I’ve been back in Queenstown, this town I called home for 4 years, for an entire day and still can’t believe I’m here. It feels like a surreal dream, one that I haven’t quite woken into. Walking down the town centre and running into people I know, going to the […]

My 2010 Goals List, Inspired by Chris Brogan

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DECEMBER!!!!!!!! It’s here and shooting by fast. I leave on a 5 week trip to Queenstown, New Zealand, my home away from home in less than 42 hours and am beyond excited! At the same time, I’ve been thinking a lot about the Year of the Tiger and all that I want to accomplish. This […]

What An Onion Has To Do With Listening To Your Body..

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I was afraid she’d know what I had done. As my mom entered my room, I wondered if she noticed the overpowering smell. She touched my head and felt the heat burn into her hand. The onion safely tucked away in my armpit had done its work. I now had a fever and it was […]