Winners make decisions fast and change them slowly. Losers make decisions slowly and change them fast. First off, I don’t believe in the concept of “winners” & “losers”. Sports, yeah. Anything else? No. (Maybe Charlie Sheen got that right? We’re all WINNING at the game of life.) Ahem. But this quote did make me stop […]

Sometime in 2010, a blogger friend Abubakar Jamil asked me to write a post about what advice I’d give to my younger self or what I might have done differently, as a part of a series he was asking bloggers to contribute to in aid of a bigger project. I was excited at the thought […]

Weekly Sunday Appreciation Series part tres. Abundance comes from noticing that which we ALREADY have and in appreciating our current blessings, we create the space to allow in more. I don’t necessarily mean more things, but more yumminess, happiness, fulfillment, peace, fun! How often do you take things for granted and don’t even notice how […]

Weekly Sunday Appreciation Series part deux. Abundance comes from noticing that which we ALREADY have and in appreciating our current blessings, we create the space to allow in more. I don’t necessarily mean more things, but more yumminess, happiness, fulfillment, peace, fun! How often do you take things for granted and don’t even notice how […]

Today, be the Observer. Let your feelings come and go without getting attached to them. Don’t fight them, just notice them. Allow them. What happens when you simply watch? I posted this message on the Your Life YOUR Way facebook page the other day and one of you had a question about it. “It’s really […]

A friend does a Sunday post on her site where she lists 11 things she is grateful for in her week. I’m borrowing her idea (thanks Laura!) and starting a weekly Sunday Appreciation Series here. Abundance comes from noticing that which we ALREADY have and in appreciating our current blessings, we create the space to […]

A simple and profound Indian / Chinese / Universal Folk Lore delivered goes thus: An elderly water bearer had two large pots, each hung on each end of a pole which he carried across his neck. One of the pots had a crack in it and the other pot was perfect. The perfect pot always […]

Get Over Yourself Darling. Who do you think you are. To say you’re going to change the world. To think you need a mission to validate you. Who do you think you are. To say you don’t matter. To measure your life using skewed standards of success, none of which were defined by you? To […]

Angst. Frustration. Fear. Anxiety. Worry about the future. Bills. Confusion. Lack of clarity. Muddy windshield. Running up a hill. Panting. Freaking out. Exhaustion. Running on empty. Mind crashes. Gremlins. Cookie Monsters. Fog. Bag lady syndrome. Unvortexy. Questioning. Everything. When your fire goes cold. How do you get it back? When You’re not lit from within, […]